Dating Younger Women
So are you interested in dating younger women? Or are you dating a younger woman currently? Good for you! Dating younger women is definitely easier than dating someone older than you. She can be 10 years your junior but both of you are madly in love, so who cares? However, do not get too confident. Dating younger women can be quiet challenging. It is not only affected solely by the digits of your age.
Basically, women seems to be more attracted to older man in their thirties and beyond. Maybe it just natural for women to like older man, just like what you see happening in high schools where a high school girl dates a college guy. Well, it is actually not a natural phenomenon. There are reasons why women go for older men.
Basically, younger women often are attracted to traits like money, maturity, higher social status, leadership abilities, masculinity, confidence and composure.
Firstly, older men are generally more worldly then them. They most probably have discovered a lot more things about themselves and learnt numerous life lessons that younger men have not. They are more matured and hence they know what they are looking out for in women. Furthermore, they do not get overly sensitive with their feelings unlike boys who get jealous about silly things.
What does a woman look out for when they date an older man? Younger women want stability and security that the man has got to offer. It is not the money that they are after! It is the security! Emotionally, financially and physically.
Younger women love the attention. As such, by dating older man, they believe that they get to spend more time as a couple, unlike with the younger men, who parties like a rockstar and simply ignore their poor girlfriends who are stuck at home. Younger women loves the seriousness that older men posses. It is a hint to these women that these older men are serious about the relationship and not just there to have a good time.
Though at the same time, do not get all too tied down with seriousness. Tease her once in a while and goof around if you need too. Just remember not to take her too seriously. Opt for things that younger guys generally cannot afford! She will definitely boast about it to her girlfriends.
As fore mentioned, younger women loves men who are able to lead. Younger women have very little experience and thus they prefer to look for someone who is able to take them out and show the world to them. For example, volunteer to plan for a date and ask her for opinions, instead of thrusting to her to plan for everything. At the same time, do respect her opinions. Small gestures like pulling out chairs and walking on the outside curb can make a big impression on younger women.
Although both of you might grow to be comfortable with each other, she might still find you way too intimidating. Avoid behaving like a perverted old guy. It is ok to flirt but do not proceed further unless she drops hints of it. Otherwise, you might scare her away.
To wrap it up, give her space to stand on her own feet too. Do not be all too daddy-like or she might find that she is dating the wrong type of guy. Do not chase her around too much, but instead, let her come to you. Keep these simple tips in mind and you will be looking at a promising long lasting relationship!
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