How to Attract Women - Say it With Me, NO MORE Mr Nice Guy

If you are anything like me, then you grew up watching movies and television shows where the nice guy always ends up getting the girl in the end. Sure, in the beginning, she is always dating the cocky and arrogant jerk. But somewhere along the way, she realizes that the nice guy that would do anything she wanted is the one that she should be with. And they end up hooking up and living happily ever after.

Well, how many times have you seen that play out in the real world?

Probably not many. And the reason for this is because regardless of what they might say to sound good, women are not really interested in finding the kind of guy that is going to be so sweet that he will base his whole life around her. And trust me, you do not want to end up being that guy, anyway. Imagine having to always base your decisions on what you think will impress a woman.

Doesn't sound like much fun, does it?

If you want to know how to attract women, then you have to get over the idea that you are going to win her over by being the classic nice guy, pushover. You have to gain the right perspective here and take some cues from what the cocky and arrogant jerks do. That does not mean that you should become one, but you should realize that women crave a man that is a little hard to control and does his own thing from time to time.

Should you still do nice things for her?

Of course. If the moment is right and you want to hold the door open for her or something like that, then go ahead and do it. If she is having trouble paying the bills and you have the immediate urge to offer to pay them for her, DON'T. That is the difference between being a push over and just doing something genuinely nice.

You have to know that you cannot buy a woman's love and attraction.

Whether you try and do it with real money or just by doing a million and one nice things for her, it's still the same thing. You are trying to buy her love and affection and that is not at all what attracts a woman. Well, it might work on some, but those are not the ones that you really want to get with unless you like watching your bank account drain out and you stress out trying to impress her.

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