Dating Relationship - Do You Want a relationship or a Trophy?

Many of us have experienced it over the years. You meet a girl that you have a great platonic relationship and the pressure starts to build. Where did it come from? Odds are, it's from the other guys want to know why you did not get more familiar with her sex means. The result is a great relationship is transformed into an attempted conquest. In many circles guy you win or you lose when it comes to women.

This kind of attitude has a lot of men on the left (alsothe alleged winners) sitting in the silence of the deserted room to ask: "What happened?" Even with the powerful emergence of Internet dating online, speed dating, live chat and all the other innovations, the same settings of victory or defeat on the full display.

No woman wants a footnote or just a notch on the bed a guy post. The majority of women deal with in terms of relationships not sports. With these words, it said are a few things.

1.Communicate

Forget the old movies where the hero plays the strong silent type and the women swoon. This can be for some, but most women will want to communicate. You may think sitting quietly practicing on a day you put your Clint Eastwood and the setting is a win-win situation, but more than likely they will think you have to make anything useful to the conversation. Worst than that, they may think you have not been listening, and that really ticks women off.

Dating isSharing. Listening and asking her intelligent questions means that you fully engaged. Be prepared to make a few personal details. Not that you tell her the story of your life in one sitting, but enough to record the conversation. The more interesting you are, the more they will want to know from you.

2. Trust or Jerk

Women can have the maternal instinct, but that does not mean they are looking for a cry baby. Have confidence in yourself and keep the self-pitya minimum. It will not audition with you as your therapist. Let the analysis itself at home.

At the other end of the spectrum is the jerk. To quote an old song: "He is a legend in his own mind and God's gift to women." No woman wants to excuse himself from the table, because they still can only take your arrogance in small doses. They are not the King of Siam so show a little humility.

3. Time

Attraction can happen, but always an immediate relationshiptakes time. If you feel that you would know its not much better than you, and that mentally and emotionally as well as the physical, it includes patient. The old adage is worth nothing, is worth the wait twice for the relationship.

No woman wants to show you a trophy on the mantle piece, to your friends, you do not with the relations of the form of winning or losing. Communicate without giving into a jerk, and the safeRelationship of time. Remember, the only one that you should concentrate on the impressive, it is.

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