Dating in New York or the compartmentalization of social relations
When I meet a friend at a bar on St. Mark's in New York the other day, a thought crossed my mind: It would be so easy for me to get more people from the same period. That's because I live in New York, a city that is constantly in motion, and work is simply too busy to take time to care about such matters.
What I mean is that because so many people are just passing through and generally not from New York at the beginning, they do not have a large pool of friendsWho know all of the same organization or themselves. It's not like in your hometown where you went to middle and high school with the same people, and where everyone knows everyone.
In New York you can take from one person and another the next day for lunch and others through your work. And it is a 0.1-percent chance that each of the different people you meet during your stay in New York will meet each other organically.
So how do I go to theseFriend, I think that the day before I was with someone else in another part of New York, and a few days earlier that there was someone else I had seen. Never have these different dating converging worlds forever. I Explain my friend and he tells me that I am good at networking, but I'm related to a "networker useless." By this he meant that I am useful, I meet people in the search for other people: I only help themselves. He says that I amWho makes sure that my life is out of compartmentalized, and that I always like that.
I think he may be right, but the reason for this is that in New York is so simplified. It is never one of my worries, if I were in someone I used to date a few months ago, when I go walking around with someone else. People I know do not drink the same sites and not by anything other than living in New York single, extremely busy and constantly on the lookout foranother person at a time to have fun. Dating in New York is like clothes shopping. All the components you stay in each bag from different stores and never all, to a mix.
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