Nigeria Dating - Nigerian Men Are the Best!

Nigerian dating online is getting more popular as the avenue of choice for both Nigerian men and women looking for that dream relationship. A cheeky smile quickly comes across my face just thinking about your reaction to the title of this piece! Don't know what to imagine your thoughts are but I know rotten tomatoes are flying this direction (I'm taking cover now!) in disagreement and some screams are also in agreement. Really, I think it's a fair judgment - this view of Nigerian men.

In many discussions online and physically, there is no fence seating! You either love or thoroughly hate a Nigerian man!

The Best Way
Spend time in the U.K for awhile and you'll become somewhat amused (to state it mildly) by views of both Nigerian girls and other African women. Speaking to a group of Nigerian girls recently, they emphatically said they prefer Nigeria dating even though Nigerian men are a risky lot. A lady even went onto to say she has turned suspicion of her man cheating into, 'If I don't catch him, he's smart and should get away with it! However, if I catch him, that does it!'

Risky Nigerian Men?
It brings a grin to the face to think Nigerian girls seemed kind of excited with the so called aggressive, noisy, ambitious and cheating nature of Nigerian men?! We must make clear that the foregoing would certainly not be everyone's view. Another story was told of how this particular lady had resigned to fate her husband's appetite for cheating on her! She claimed, a family member told her...it's an honour to catch your man trousers down! For some, I should think Nigerian men are the best thing to come out of God's factory.

Patronising?
Don't be narrow-minded about where your dream relationship will come from! It can come from the most unlikely of places; however, if you decide like many to stick with Nigerian dating, make sure you are in love! Also make sure the guy is clean! It's a very odd situation when a lady knows a guy has a wife at home and she believes him when he claims he intends to divorce her and she believes him! Unbelievable! This is a true story! To close, if you are a lady, be a good manager as the Nigerian man is like a bottle of chilli! Laugh it off...

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Should I Call Him? 3 Things Every Woman Needs to Know About Calling Men

I've done it myself. I've called a guy after a great date. Is that so wrong? Actually, most of the time it might be. Complicated isn't it, this world of communications between men and women. How about texting? Is that ok? What about calling after a certain amount of time. Is that ok? Is it impossible to figure this all out? Are you doomed to being powerless? Absolutely not!

There are some basic rules and information that can help you make the right moves and keep the worry monster away.

1. If he calls and you aren't available, return the call. It's polite, it's friendly and it's the right thing to do. If you like him, this may be his time to ask you out and if you wait too long, he may think you are not interested. If you aren't interested, call him anyway. It's the right thing to do and at some point you have to learn to do the hard things in life such as telling a nice guy, "I like you , and thanks for asking me out again, but I didn't feel we had enough in common to move on to a second date."

2. You had a great date and he isn't calling. Should you call him the next day and thank him? NO! I hope you thanked him on the night of the date. Now, you wait.

3. Why are there rules? Why is a man the one who should call after a date? Hasn't the world changed? Yes, of course the world has changed in many wonderful ways for men and women. But calling after a date isn't one of them - and that's not a bad thing. Every game has rules and the dating game is no different. Play by the rules and everyone is comfortable. That's why you don't see people in restaurants standing on tables and yelling - the rules of eating out require you not act like that. They also require using utensils properly and speaking in a quiet tone of voice. The world runs smoother this way.

And the same is true of communications between men and women. Is it fair? Actually, yes. Rules allow you to know where you stand in the game of dating. If he doesn't call you after a date, you know he doesn't want to go out again. At least not now. Ok, that's a bummer - but it frees you up to move on to the one who can't wait to call you and see you again after a date.

Men are different! They like the thrill of the chase. Let him chase you until you catch him!

Communications are critical - we all have to talk or send signals or we won't know what to do and what is going on. But understanding some basic psychology of gender differences can make it or break it in the dating game.

If you really need to talk about "the night before" - call a friend. Tell her the good, the bad, and the ugly. And then, go play a game of tennis or do some work, or call another friend. Go have a life - the more you do that, the less you will care if he calls, and the happier you will be whether he does or not. Life is not lived on the cell (not completely anyway!). So go do something and see how interesting you are to him when he calls and you are out doing something!

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