The Age Gap—Dating Someone Much Younger

As you know, there is a stereotype about older, probably dating divorced men younger women. Sometimes much younger. The worn-out story of a man in his late 30s or older looking to "trade in" his wife on a "younger model". Consider a 23 or 24 years old "hottie" and you are pronounced on the right track, but not out, female someone (or something), the "legal" ( "18 years or older). In principle, such a man is looking for an "armOrnament. "

What an insult.

Once, when I published an online profile, I received an email from a spunky, redheaded, and very cute eighteen years old girl (yes, I said "girl" and not "woman"). After a lengthy email in the form rant about how "the boys in her age were boring" and such, she explained that she wanted to "settle down and have ten children or so." Given she had spent, what was to be a half hour, from which this message to me, I feltsomewhat obligated to at least respond (a belief which I by no means where you read this, to impose, by the way). Although tempted to respond with one of my typical one-liner (in this case: "You lost me at 'Hello'"), I went the more pragmatic way.

I told him I was flattered, and I was sure she was a wonderful, albeit detailed person. But 39 years of age I doubted I had ten more children away stuck in my future.

One of you out there readingCurrently, throw something at your computer monitor and shouted: "Are WHAT? You crazy?" I assure you that I am completely healthy.

Oh yeah.

You see, I have a hypothesis, you may be particularly interesting irony, in his. I firmly believe that most if not all older people who have had achieved about dating girls younger than legal drinking something in common: They can not do. That's right, all older men who can actually get a date with a very young womanwill become tired quickly. It is the old philosophy at work here, "always want to die." Sure, young women and all the nice people. But to tell the truth, when I'll be babysitting anyone, I would prefer not to peel out as the Bucks paid me for one day. Know what I mean?

Oh yes, I've dated my share of younger women in recent years. As a man in my late thirties I did my darnedest to justify it, more women are over 25 or 26 an honestshot to think that they are "exceptionally mature. In the end they were not.

As you can imagine, the thought of the younger women eventually gave way to more rational thought. Finally, after more "lab tests" when I came to mention care, I on an innovative mindset, which has still not me.

So, what is the "silver bullet"?

How many things I speak in the vicinity, it is disarmingly simple: I have realized that the biggest in the SearchThe world is a woman closer to my age, which seems exceptionally young for her age.

Now really, how can you miss with this approach? When I am with a 35-year-old woman who is still routinely carded because 23 appears, I hit the "system" (whatever that means). When find such a person, I am all the dynamic, young, enthusiastic young woman in the beauty of a mature personality, a real woman who can relate with me, wrapped in the mid 80s. What more could a manwant?

Well, for all of you women out there reading this and offended ... remain so. Why? Because you somehow read that I am a woman who looks 12 years younger than she is, and it is a woman who can pull extremely rare that want to eliminate.

Granted. I am therefore was careful to say, it seems that "23" instead of "looks 23". Everyone, whether man or woman, has control over how he or she decides to act. Whoever you are, always an adventure, fun attitude of joy at what the lifehas to offer, and you are absolutely positive of all costs the right messages. Well, if you take care of themselves physically and stay away from "free radicals" that a life in the hands of hardcore partying down, the better. But, said the vast majority of what we are discussing here, runs on attitude.

So make no mistake ... a woman to a man her age exactly what he seeks. It's just tragic that most women do not pretend to be what so many older peopleViews of younger women for the excitement they desire.

And guys, the same is true for us. Sure, growing up. Ripeness, deals with things and not act like an immature little boy. But never, never lose that sparkle in the eye. Keep the youthful excitement about life and a healthy sense of adventure and you will literally mesmerize women.

How cool is that everything is not it? Great. Now go deserve what you want.

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